But hey, life could be worse.
Our mind is powerful.
It determines the course of one’s life. Way more than any other body part.
That is why we have to keep it healthy.
And a healthy mind means positive thinking.
But enough psychology.
This post is aimed at encouraging you. The goal will be to push you towards being positive so that you can achieve more success.
It is true that life can be hard at times. Think harsh economic conditions, sack and rejection letters, unemployment, unfriendly bosses, etc.
And during these times, it is easier for us to focus on these things?—?and imagine that things cannot get better.
And this is just wrong.
Because negativity never produces positive results. That is why it is negative in the first place
And it is a positive result that can change a situation for the better.
So, this post is aimed at stopping you in your tracks. Take a breath of fresh air and see the reasons why you are doing okay.
Maybe you are not where you want to be?—?but at least you are somewhere.
And it is on the platform of the good things you currently have that the good ones you are hoping for will rest on.
So you must learn to appreciate what you have now.
Here are 5 reasons you are doing great:
1. You are alive
A dead man is dead. That is what it is. Dead.
But you are alive. And this alone shows you are not doing badly.
The popular word is: While there’s life, there’s hope
And this is true.
I Googled “how many people died this week”. It leads me to a statistics website called wordometers
I could only get the estimates of people who have died this year and today. See below:
That’s a lot of deaths.
Friend, you get the point. You are not one of the over 22,000,000 deaths this year alone. You are alive.
The dead don’t read. Congrats on being alive. Be grateful for it.
I thank God for you.
2. You are Sane
I bet you were not expecting this.
But sanity is a gift. And insanity does not mean only those who stroll on the streets naked?—?although that too is sad.
But I’m saying that your brain works. Your mind is sound, rational, and healthy.
The beauty of a sane mind is that you can learn. That means you can become anything you want to be.
And the ability to learn is a blessing.
The greatest wealth in Life is the ability to learn.
The issue with insanity is that it grounds you. It puts you on the same level forever?—?until you get your sanity back.
That we have hope for a better job, marriage, children, increased salary, making an impact?—?or whatever? the nice thing we are hoping for —?all rides on the fact that we are sane.
Sorry this might make you moody?—?but the point is?—?be grateful.
And do say a prayer for those you know who need their minds back.
3. You have a bed to sleep
People who are familiar with life in the slum will appreciate this point.
Sometimes last year, I had an appointment very early in the morning so I left the house earlier than normal (around 5:00 am) and on getting to the streets leading to my destination – I saw people sleeping on side steps, front porch of shops & buildings in the area.
I saw people sleeping on mats and hard cardboards.
Some just woke up, while some were still at it. My heart tanked. That was the first time I will see such.
The parked tricycles homed some people and also parked trucks.
It was sad.
I don’t think you are in this position. I think and know you have a nice bed and a roof over your head.
I need not remind you of those transversing borders in Europe looking for new homes due to war.
But you are not.
Be grateful.
And say a prayer for the families in distress in your country.
4. You have got Peace
Writing this point made me somewhat sad.
During war or chaos?—?everything is grounded.
No one is operating any business or posting new jobs. What job? To do what? Maybe to become a soldier but definitely not a customer care officer at a Multinational company.
Nobody is promoting you or increasing your salary. The mind shifts from convenience to survival.
But you have peace. You are not worried about your safety.
No one is chasing you out of your home.
You should be grateful.
And pray for peace in your country.
5. You have faith
This point will not sit well with most in other countries, but that’s their loss. We have faith here, people.
Any part of the divide you find yourself tells you that you have something higher than you. That you have a God who Has got your back.
I Googled for the part of the Quran that says this and I saw:
“Verily We created man from a product of wet earth; then placed him as a drop (of seed) in a safe lodging; then We fashioned the drop into a clot, then We fashioned the clot into a little lump, then We fashioned the little lump into bones, then clothed the bones with flesh, and then produced it another creation. So blessed be Allah, the Best of Creators!” [23:12-14]
And I know the bible says:
“For I know the plans I have towards you are plans of good and not of evil, to give you hope and an expected end”. Jeremiah 29:11
So, hold on to your faith. It is your best bet.
You only have to play your own part and the author of your faith will play His.
In conclusion; discovery is all about showing you the wisdom that will help you succeed in your career and business—but whatever we teach will not work if your mind is not set right.
- Yes, there are things you are not happy with—but hey, there is a lot more for you to be grateful for.
- It’s always tempting to focus on the things not going well—know that this will not help. It never does.
- Yes, it is good not to accept the status quo. But let that feeling drive you to find out how to change it.
- Failure often implies some things were done wrong. Don’t be sad—just go find out how to do it right and apply what you learn. And you’ll be good.
Always remember that a lot of people will be glad to have the things you and I take for granted.
Think about these things.
The summary of it all is that no matter the position you find yourself in today, always be grateful to God. Your case is still better than several others.
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First, I am grateful and thankful to God for the gift of life and a beautiful family. I am thankful to God for my business and career. I am thankful to God for my lovely subscribers, blog readers, customers, students, staff, friends and loved ones. I am thankful to God for being there for me always. Thank you Lord.
thank for share your kwnlege.God will bless u.amin
Thank you for this post mrs. Bamidele
I am grateful to God for this write up. Thanks for sharing . You’ve made my day already with this
I am grateful to God for all the job interviews I’ve attended this year. Even though, I have not gotten the job yet. But I know God would perfect all that he has started in my life
you inspired me with your write up,God will surely increase your knowledge and may you continue to grow from strength to strength
Thankful to God for d gift of life…family…sanity…health n peace.
This is wonderful and invigorating. Highly appreciated.
I did not know i am doing so well, I thought there are so many things out there i have to accomplish to prove that i am doing well. This write up is quite apt especially in times like this. Thank you
Thanking God for the gift of life and his abundant blessings.
Your post has lifted me up. Just what i need to know how grateful i should be for been alive, sane, having a bed to lie on, having peace and faith. To God be the Glory. Thank you for the post.
We complain about what we’ve not achieve and leave the most important things to be grateful to God for. May God forgive my ungrateful acts to Him because of my unending wants.
Thanking God for the gift of life and his abundant blessings. Thank you Bamidele
I glad to read you blog. I appropriate you for sharing with me and other hundreds of thousands of Nigerians. I wouldn’t mind how much I am crediting into your account. Because fact is that, this write-up is very very inspiring, encouraging and ones hope alive! Once again, Thanks. I hope to see more inspiring, encouraging things from you!
I thank God for the gift of life,health ,beautiful family,shelter and ,faith and peace of mind.Am most grateful to God.I may not have money but i have joy for money does not buy joy.Thanks for sharing.
Thanks Mrs Aderonke. My spirit is lifted.
Everybody pls help me say THANK U GOD.
Glory be to God in the highest for making me to read this topic .l belief that God work with time.God,s time is best.
You are just too good. Keep it up! God bless.
Many, many thanks for your soul lifting words of encouragement. so timely ,energising and motivating especially at this point in time when the Nigeria economy is taking a nose dive with its attendant negative effects on all and sundry. I remain undaunted,resilient and resolute to forge ahead in spite of the stormy economic waters . Together we shall get to the promise land.Those that sow in tears shall reap a bountiful harvest in Joy. For tears may flow in the night but joy cometh in the morning. Shallom Madame.stay blessed always and do have a glorious Sunday and a bumper week ahead.