Doyin advises women, says men are not obligated to take responsibility for their expenses
Reality sensation Doyin David has advised women to wait until marriage before expecting men to cover all their expenses.
She believes that any acts of generosity from a man during a relationship are purely out of kindness.
She emphasized that until marriage, a man is not obligated to be responsible for a woman’s expenses.
Doyin’s advice came in response to a female fan who had been rejected by her boyfriend for calling him “stingy” and sought her counsel.
Sharing a screenshot of the message on her Instagram story, Doyin wrote: “I don’t think he’s stingy because he doesn’t randomly give you money.
If you have a man who gives to you when you ask, then you’re lucky to have a responsible man. However, he doesn’t owe you random money just because you are his girlfriend.”
“Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you….whatever he does is out of the generosity of his heart but you should never feel entitled to his money.
“Don’t let the internet deceive you, it’s nice to have a man who is intentional with his generosity but it’s not your birthright. There is nothing genetically programmed in a man that makes it easier for him to make money than a woman.
“It’s not easy to make money, so no one wants to keep spending ‘randomly’. If you need random money, please get a job.”
