Ebuka Obi-Uchendu reveals a “unique” way of settling conflicts with his wife Cynthia
Celebrity pair Ebuka and Cynthia Obi-Uchendu have disclosed their distinctive approach to resolving marital conflicts.
In a recent Q&A session on Cynthia’s YouTube channel, the couple addressed inquiries from her followers about their intimate life, including how they navigate disagreements in their marriage.
Emphasizing the importance of proximity and open communication in resolving conflicts, Ebuka and Cynthia shared insights from their experience.
Ebuka initiated the discussion, stating, “Early in our marriage, we made deliberate choices regarding certain aspects that have perhaps contributed to our resilience. Now, after eight years together, nearing nine, we continue to glean numerous lessons.”
He underscored their commitment to sleeping in the same bed every night, regardless of the intensity of their disagreement or their emotional state.
Ebuka elaborated, “We made a pact to always share the same bed, no matter the circumstances. Even in moments of heated arguments, we find solace in each other’s presence, sleeping side by side every night, as long as we’re in the same city.”
In conclusion, he highlighted the importance of communication in their marriage, revealing how they learned to always talk through their issues.
“We have also perfected the art of someone coming forward to say ‘Okay, what just happened?’ And we have a conversation about it. So we learned from our errors and mistakes. Your egos might get in the way sometimes, especially when you feel like you’re not the one who did wrong, but we’ve perfected it,” said the media personality.
Cynthia added, “We talk things through,” to which Ebuka responded, “Yeah.”