“I’m a mom now” Man legally changes his gender to get custody of his daughters
A man from Ecuador has chosen to change his gender in order to win custody of his daughters, who live with their mother.
Rene Salinas Ramos (47) is currently in legal proceedings to obtain custody of his daughters.
Ramos stated to Ecuadorian news outlet La Voz del Tomebamba, that Ecuador’s laws favor mothers and fathers in custody battles for children. He decided to legally change his gender.
His official documents now list his gender identity as “FEMENINO” (female).
Ramos alleged that his daughters were living in an abusive environment with their mother. He said that he hasn’t met them in over five months.
“The laws say that the one who has the right is the woman. As of this moment, I am female. Now I’m also a mom, that’s how I consider myself,” Ramos told local media.
He added, “I am very sure of my sexuality. What I have sought is that I want to be a mother, so that I can also give the love and protection of a mother.”
“Being a father in this country, Ecuador is punished and looked at only as a provider,” he argued.
After he presented his arguments before the Cantonal Board for the Protection of Rights, he was told that his daughter will remain with their mother until the matter is resolved.
Ramos’s decision to change his gender to get custody of his children has upset the trans activists in the country.
Ramos, who expected the backlash, said that his action “is not against a person, not to harm anyone, but rather to fight against this system that has stigmatized the fact of being born a man.”