“Stop doing wifey duties for your boyfriend. I didn’t cook or clean for my man and he married me” – Christabel Egbenya advises ladies
Christabel Egbenya a Nollywood actress has taken to social media for advice to women about giving up their wifely duties to their boyfriends.
This advice was shared by her on Instagram on Friday, March 24. She claims that men don’t value women who cook, clean, and sleep with them before marriage.
She discouraged women from staying at their boyfriends’ houses for multiple nights because they will not have anything to look forward to in marriage.
The mother of one, who married her husband in November 2021, stated that she did not do any menial labor at his house prior to marriage, but he still married her.
She was also against the idea of financial assistance to a man before he marries because it doesn’t guarantee that he will marry the woman.
Her words,
“This message if for all you who are yet to get married, yet you pack your bags to man’s house turning yourself into his wife. You will wash, iron, cook his foods. Wash his bathroom and give him access to all your sexual parts. Tomorrow when he dumps for another person, you will start crying and complaining. Why will he not dump you? When you have offered him all you have. Stop being a wifey when he has not paid your bride price. “
“Ask around, for me I don’t go to men’s house to cook when I was still single. Cook and wash for you? Have I finished cooking and washing for myself? If I manage to go a man’s house to spend a day, he would be thankful. Because, I don’t usually do that. Also stop giving them money, so you will not be disappointed when they eventually end up not marrying you.”
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Well, every one is entitled to his or her opinion. Is not always true that women who cook for their boy friend or man is not valued. Is on individual differences and understanding. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Imagine marrying a woman who cannot cook, my dear you are finished as a man. I’m not in support of ladies or girls sleeping or leaving in a man’s house before they get married, is totally wrong. Know him. Know his character and the kind of man he is, including the man too. You have to know the kind woman that you want. Is she the one that keeps screts or the one that is lazy and always depending on the man to do everything. My dear if you go for such a woman you will die before you time. Such woman are sex-maniac all they want from you is sex all the way.