A man telling you he is ready to be in a relationship and actually wanting to be in one are two different things. Men will tend to say all the right things but fail to follow through with actions that prove otherwise. If he is not willing to put action into everything he tells you don’t waste your time sitting in a relationship that will lead to heartbreak. Pay attention to these signs.
1. HESITATES OR REFUSES TO TALK ABOUT FUTURE PLANS.
It’s perfectly normal to talk about future plans with someone you been seeing for some time. If at all they become nervous or never want to talk about “we” plans they are not looking at the relationship l0ng term. A man who really wants to be with you will make plans for the future, you won’t need to force the conversation.
2. HE NEVER KEEPS HIS WORD.
Behavior will always tell you where you stand in someone’s life. A man who is really interested in you will never get enough of you. If he seems distant, and doesn’t seem to care whether he speaks to you or not he is not interested in being with you like you might think. He never calls or shows up when he says he is. You tend to be last on his priority list when it comes to keeping his word.
3. DISTANT.
Spending time with you is always a problem. He never takes you out or spends much quality time with you. You find yourself arguing about his lack of attention towards you.
4. HANGING OUT WITH FRIENDS COMES BEFORE YOU
When it comes to you he has no problem cancelling plans, but when it comes to hanging out with his boys he is always on time. There is nothing wrong with having a social life outside of the relationship but when it interferes with your time it becomes a problem.
If a man doesn’t call you it’s because he doesn’t want to call you. If he doesn’t invite you to go out it’s because he doesn’t want to see you. If he treats you like crap it’s because he doesn’t care. If he lets you go it’s because he doesn’t want to be with you. When a man says “I’m not ready, but you are the love of my life and the only one that I want, but now is not the right time.” It’s simply because he doesn’t want you. Don’t keep playing his confusing games. Don’t justify him. When a man wants to be with a woman, he stays with her without lies, excuses, and complications. Stop being genuine and naive, and stop justifying his every excuse and complication and put yourself first. You DO NOT need someone that doesn’t know what they want, you DO NOT need someone that doesn’t see your worth. You deserve a man that knows your worth and fights for you everyday. Stop breaking your own heart for someone who probably won’t even be as good as you expect and give yourself an opportunity to be happy and be with someone who actually deserves you.
