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5 Signs You’re Doing Well In Life Even Though You Don’t Think So

Sometimes it feels like life’s all fuzzy and confusing. Like it’s going to fall apart like a wooden building in the eye of the hurricane.
Perhaps your marriage has become wobbly lately, or your company just downsized, or you failed to pass an exam that has cost you lots of money and valuable time and now you are feeling depressed, helpless, and hopelessly defeated.

But hey, life could be worse.

Our mind is powerful.

It determines the course of one’s life. Way more than any other body part.

That is why we have to keep it healthy.
And a healthy mind means positive thinking.

But enough psychology.

This post is aimed at encouraging you. The goal will be to push you towards being positive so that you can achieve more success.

It is true that life can be hard at times. Think harsh economic conditions, sack and rejection letters, unemployment, unfriendly bosses, etc.

And during these times, it is easier for us to focus on these things?—?and imagine that things cannot get better.

And this is just wrong.

Because negativity never produces positive results. That is why it is negative in the first place
And it is a positive result that can change a situation for the better.

So, this post is aimed at stopping you in your tracks. Take a breath of fresh air and see the reasons why you are doing okay.

Maybe you are not where you want to be?—?but at least you are somewhere.

And it is on the platform of the good things you currently have that the good ones you are hoping for will rest on.

So you must learn to appreciate what you have now.

Here are 5 reasons you are doing great:

1. You are alive

A dead man is dead. That is what it is. Dead.

But you are alive. And this alone shows you are not doing badly.

The popular word is: While there’s life, there’s hope

And this is true.

I Googled “how many people died this week”. It leads me to a statistics website called wordometers

I could only get the estimates of people who have died this year and today. See below:

That’s a lot of deaths.

Friend, you get the point. You are not one of the over 22,000,000 deaths this year alone. You are alive.

The dead don’t read. Congrats on being alive. Be grateful for it.

I thank God for you.

2. You are Sane

I bet you were not expecting this.

But sanity is a gift. And insanity does not mean only those who stroll on the streets naked?—?although that too is sad.

But I’m saying that your brain works. Your mind is sound, rational, and healthy.

The beauty of a sane mind is that you can learn. That means you can become anything you want to be.

And the ability to learn is a blessing.

The greatest wealth in Life is the ability to learn. 

The issue with insanity is that it grounds you. It puts you on the same level forever?—?until you get your sanity back.

That we have hope for a better job, marriage, children, increased salary, making an impact?—?or whatever? the nice thing we are hoping for —?all rides on the fact that we are sane.

Sorry this might make you moody?—?but the point is?—?be grateful.

And do say a prayer for those you know who need their minds back.

3. You have a bed to sleep

People who are familiar with life in the slum will appreciate this point.

Sometimes last year, I had an appointment very early in the morning so I left the house earlier than normal (around 5:00 am) and on getting to the streets leading to my destination – I saw people sleeping on side steps, front porch of shops & buildings in the area.

I saw people sleeping on mats and hard cardboards.

Some just woke up, while some were still at it. My heart tanked. That was the first time I will see such.

The parked tricycles homed some people and also parked trucks.

It was sad.

I don’t think you are in this position. I think and know you have a nice bed and a roof over your head.

I need not remind you of those transversing borders in Europe looking for new homes due to war.

But you are not.

Be grateful.

And say a prayer for the families in distress in your country. 

4. You have got Peace

Writing this point made me somewhat sad.

During war or chaos?—?everything is grounded.

No one is operating any business or posting new jobs. What job? To do what? Maybe to become a soldier but definitely not a customer care officer at a Multinational company.

Nobody is promoting you or increasing your salary. The mind shifts from convenience to survival.

But you have peace. You are not worried about your safety.

No one is chasing you out of your home.

You should be grateful.

And pray for peace in your country. 

5. You have faith

This point will not sit well with most in other countries, but that’s their loss. We have faith here, people.

Any part of the divide you find yourself tells you that you have something higher than you. That you have a God who Has got your back.

I Googled for the part of the Quran that says this and I saw:

“Verily We created man from a product of wet earth; then placed him as a drop (of seed) in a safe lodging; then We fashioned the drop into a clot, then We fashioned the clot into a little lump, then We fashioned the little lump into bones, then clothed the bones with flesh, and then produced it another creation. So blessed be Allah, the Best of Creators!” [23:12-14]

And I know the bible says:

“For I know the plans I have towards you are plans of good and not of evil, to give you hope and an expected end”. Jeremiah 29:11

So, hold on to your faith. It is your best bet.

You only have to play your own part and the author of your faith will play His.

In conclusion; discovery is all about showing you the wisdom that will help you succeed in your career and business—but whatever we teach will not work if your mind is not set right.

  1. Yes, there are things you are not happy with—but hey, there is a lot more for you to be grateful for.
  2. It’s always tempting to focus on the things not going well—know that this will not help. It never does.
  3. Yes, it is good not to accept the status quo. But let that feeling drive you to find out how to change it.
  4. Failure often implies some things were done wrong. Don’t be sad—just go find out how to do it right and apply what you learn. And you’ll be good.

Always remember that a lot of people will be glad to have the things you and I take for granted.

Think about these things.

The summary of it all is that no matter the position you find yourself in today, always be grateful to God. Your case is still better than several others.

5 Signs You’re Doing Well In Life Even Though You Don’t Think So was last modified: January 18th, 2024 by Infopreneur Queen
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JP April 28, 2023 at 11:35 am

Wow! This is just what I needed. You’re really good at doing what you do. May God continue to bless you richly.

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Jonah Nnanna Uwom May 25, 2023 at 3:07 pm

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Elochuwu Patience Okeke July 30, 2023 at 3:17 pm

Thank you so much dear you have made my day,your words are so inspiring.May God help you to continue doing the good work in person life.

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Anonymous August 10, 2023 at 1:44 am

Ever since I came across you, my hope got revived and I know that I will achieve all you have to offer in the shortest time. M.A

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Anonymous September 13, 2023 at 10:20 pm

Ma, Thanks for sharing. God bless you in Jesus name amen.

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Anonymous September 14, 2023 at 9:59 pm

Thank Ronke i found it useful.

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Anonymous November 17, 2023 at 7:03 pm

Mrs Aderonke,thank you. i see your page.Weldone!

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Abdulazeez November 25, 2023 at 12:25 am

Mrs Aderonke, indeed you are special.lead us please.

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Gift December 6, 2023 at 12:23 pm

These words ma’am, they are so soothing. I read between the lines and all I can say is, you are a gift and a blessing. I pray for more of Gods wisdom over your life, so that you’ll become more and continue doing what you do. Thank you so much for these kind words❤️

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Solomon Boris Azubuike January 2, 2024 at 4:03 am

Your words are encouragement, I mean it looks as if I had a heart to heart talk with you before you wrote this , in fact is wonderful and when I say wonderful, God knows what I’m really saying from the deep of my heart. Especially the area that talks about us focusing on what we don’t have. Many people missed here.
May god continue to bless you, I like people like you around me judging from your massage.
From Solomon Boris Azubuike

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Anonymous March 19, 2024 at 3:35 pm

Dear Ronke , you are a blessing to humanity a lot of people who read this message found solace like i did . May God increase your wisdom and prosper your work. Thank you very much. – Sogo Adekoya.

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Ifado Ifado ATAMEYO March 20, 2024 at 2:15 am

I am genuinely motivated for the 5 things mentioned. This piece is revitalizing. I am glad to have you online! Thank you as I do hope to read more of your powerful works.

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Adeleke April 17, 2024 at 5:19 pm

Wow this is great and I so much appreciate you for that may God almighty continue to bless you with lots of wisdom lodges and understanding

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Achigak Abraham J April 30, 2024 at 7:10 pm

Madam,ever since I came in contact with you and started reading the inspiring messages sent, I in fact appreciate you a million times. I was thinking it was going to be easier for me to raise the 10k to have the opportunity of being one of the earliest but I proved wrong do to the economy situation in the country, but, I”m still trying to see that I meet up because, I can not afford to miss this opportunity.

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Lewis Ibezim May 24, 2024 at 4:19 pm

I sincerely thank you for your several mails to me. From the first mail I know you are a leader.and have vision. I have no much to say than I will follow your back for every assistance until I master everything,as long as you promise payment monthly.

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Anonymous May 26, 2024 at 5:53 pm

This message is quite inspiring. Thank you.

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Anonymous December 29, 2024 at 6:10 pm

Wow wow you are indeed an encourager ma I I trust God for my payment before the new year okay thanks

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